Saying “I Love You” can be as simple as saying 3 words, or something so deep and profound that it can change someone’s life, turn someone’s ways around, move the coldest of hearts.
I believe sincerity is the key to convince someone you love him/her. How far would you go, to let him/her know you love them? Would you go against your reasoning and spend hundreds of dollars to get her some flowers which you find not worth the dollar value? Would you defy the call of need and spend hundreds of dollars to get him the latest I-Phone 4S which you know he really wants when his I-Phone 4 is functioning well?
Saying “I Love You”, for you to express your love, or for him/her to feel your love? Being romantic is often not doing what you feel romantic about. Rather, what your partner feels romantic about.
Saying “I Love You”: 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman
There is a love-tank in everyone. It needs to be refilled, just like how a gas tank works for a car. When we try to tell someone we love them, unless they received the love we are trying to convey, their love tank would not be filled.
The 5 love languages by Gary Chapman:
1) Words of Affirmation
2) Quality Time
3) Acts of Servive
4) Gifts Reciving
5) Physical Touch
To effectively convey our love to someone, we got to first find out what is the love language our partner speaks. There is a free assessment test you can take with your partner at http://www.5lovelanguages.com/assessments/love/
Make your yourselves comfortable, some coffee or wine in front of the fireplace or in the comfort your bed with a laptop, discover the love language of your partner and yourself. Knowing that the one you love is interested to find out more about you and your love language, that in itself is heart warming and romantic to some.
Saying “I Love You”: Actions Speak Louder Than Words
Let your actions confirm your love declaration. Show your partner you care by sharing your life with him/her, and be involved in their lives. A kiss in the morning, a hug when you’re home in the evening, ask and listen to what happened in the day, play some romantic music and sway together in each other’s arms, let your life and actions confirm your ”I Love You”.